纹身

Jeanne-发布于2018年10月1日(9位妈妈已回复)澳门威廉希尔

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我18岁的儿子去了洛杉矶,当他离开的时候,得到了一个巨大的,我是说他手臂上有个巨大的纹身。太可怕了,我想我不能忍受。I resent the fact that he made this decision and acted on it without talking to me or letting me see the design before it was inked.我讨厌他的女朋友和他们的家人认为带这个孩子去纹身店,在不先和父母说话的情况下得到一个大而持久的东西是可以的。I'm so upset I don't even want to see him,即使我全心全意地爱着他,我还是觉得被出卖了。我知道这是不合理的,但我不能让自己摆脱这种焦虑和悲伤!

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Dusty_dustbunny - posted on 01/10/2018

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除了尺寸和半永久性,is any thing else bugging you about it?Tattoos take maintenance else they fade or warp.它们可以通过激光处理去除,有些可以换成其他东西。

I agree with the underlying assessment that you are going through the parental stage of getting used to your child be a young adult that will make what you consider stupid or poor choices.他们可能会回首过去,在一些问题上与你意见一致。

我建议你和你儿子谈谈,不是你为什么讨厌他的纹身,也不是你对他的感觉。Tattoos having meaning,they are symbols of something to the wearer.问他为什么选择,what does it mean.问他以前见过什么样的纹身,why?Take this opportunity to get to know him better.纹身讲述一个故事,这很重要。In some cases it really was a bad idea or was just to fit in and it is sad,但他们需要超越当时的需要。

If you need some company in your misery look up tattoo nightmares.If you want to appreciate how beautiful and complicated some tattoos can be,查找墨迹母版。Both shows give helpful prespectives.

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Shenequa - posted on 01/13/2018

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这似乎是你儿子最终独立的行为。虽然我不想让我的儿子或女儿做那样的事,knowing me,我可能会感到欣慰的是,他们必须忍受这一切,以及这一切给他们的余生带来的关注。Kids grow up and they are not going to always do everything we would want or like for them to do.这是他们学习的一部分。If my kids did this,这不是原谅他们的问题,因为他们不需要我的许可或意见。I hope you can get past this and enjoy as much time with your son as you can because that is what is invaluable and priceless.

奇迹-发布于2018年12月1日

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jeanne.是的,因为我儿子还小,所以我不付大学学费。但我为他们的大学买单将是我帮助他们接受教育的选择。但这并不意味着他们不是法律眼中的成年人,也不能为了上帝而纹身。nobody forced you to pay for your son,dont take it out on a mother with younger kids.i payed over 70,000 in medical expenses for my sick son last year,我理解为你的孩子牺牲金钱。你似乎不喜欢这样做。

Michelle - posted on 01/11/2018

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By law he is an adult,it doesn't matter that you are paying for all his expenses.
如果你不想让他自己做选择,那就让他找份工作,自己支付费用。
我要说的是,继续下去没有意义,what's done is done and it's a big expense to have it removed.

珍妮-发布于2018年11月1日

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普里西拉·保莱塔·达斯特邦尼非常感谢你分享你的想法,并为我提供了一些途径来探索其他方式来看待这一点。It was incredibly helpful to have pointers to places that could provide excellent food for thought.我只想让你知道,我非常感谢你和我分享了你的知识。

珍妮-发布于2018年11月1日

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Well Miracle Jackson I suppose that if you're in your 20s with 2 children it may be hard for you to imagine spending almost $70,000 per year on my son's college and support,which does not make him an adult but a totally dependent student.His time to make permanent decisions about his life comes when he supports himself.我很好奇,为什么你选择了这样的回应方式——你是一个不快乐和愤怒的人。让我们在16年后谈谈,当你把所有的积蓄都花在他们的大学上时,看看你是否觉得他们是可以自己做决定的成年人。

Miracle - posted on 01/10/2018

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He is a adult now just like u.你是否想含糊其辞。you may be a older mother,因为我是2岁的母亲(我20多岁),纹身不再是禁忌。在某一时刻,穿孔的耳朵会引起父母的反应。

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