10 year old daughter is mean at school but sweet with me

Yindsey-发布于2015年6月10日(15位妈妈已回复)澳门威廉希尔

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我女儿是我和其他成年人的心上人。She has problems getting along with her brothers but that's normal sibling rivalry.她会激怒他们和类似的事情,但没有什么像我从她的托儿所和学校听到的。她失控了,她对学生发出嘶嘶声和咆哮声,忽视了老师的直接指示。She does not get along with kids and will not talk to her teachers or the ladies in her daycare when things do not go her way.是她的路还是高速公路。我什么都试过了,从打屁股开始,口香糖,接地,talking,问她怎么了,等。I'm at a loss.She says that she tells the teachers/daycare that kids are being mean to her and they don't listen.她的托儿所说她从未遇到过像我女儿这样的孩子。我只是在一个站不住的迷失。救命!

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Jodi - posted on 10/10/2015

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好啊,in your opening post,你没有提到你女儿的任何可能的诊断问题,但在你的第二个职位上,你说她要接替维万。你真的要详细说明你女儿诊断出的问题吗?Is she diagnosed ADHD?根据你提供的信息,你在这里得到的建议会有所不同……

Marylin-发布于2015年10月10日

你好,当你写“他们不听”的时候,还记得我4岁的儿子,他告诉我他学校的孩子们在说话,而不是在听。
He told me they always talking and not listening,事实上,我的孩子喜欢说话,也许他试图给孩子们或给他们一个信息,但却没有跟上。
所以试着知道是不是那个打扰了你的孩子,她不觉得有人在听或鼓励她。

Yindsey - posted on 10/06/2015

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Nothing major has happened at school.Some of the kids are ugly to her and buly her.I think I'll go to the school counselor over some of this.我女儿有时对我的孩子们说他们对她很刻薄,但他们是学的。另外,她在维万斯,我要和她的医生谈谈增加剂量的问题。Ill try the coin-token thing.最好是每两周从学校或托儿所接到一次电话。

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Priscilla-发布于2017年8月7日

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也许她说的是实话。让她解释一下孩子们对她有多坏。Explain to her that she doesnt have to deal with bullies on her own.再和老师谈谈。你女儿真的告诉他们其他孩子对她很刻薄吗?How are they handling the situation?Perhaps her antics are a form of retaliation for not being listened to.或者她想引起注意。她是觉得自己已经够了,还是已经习惯了?

If all else fails...也许你应该让她去见学校辅导员。他们可能对情况有更好的了解,特别是因为他们也可以和其他学生交谈。

编辑…我看这篇文章很旧。Probably already taken care of..

Angalique-发布于2016年5月11日

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很明显你只听到了其中的一个方面。Which is most likely the teacher's side.You have to hear her side too.孩子们可能在取笑她。她可能不明白老师在教什么。And they probably don't take time for her to understand.

索菲亚-发布于2016年6月7日

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Is she being sexually abused---brothers or neighbors,relatives,澳门williamhill保姆还是其他人?A child doesn't become this way.Spanking and being a strict disciplinarian is clearly not working.你确定这种行为不是因为她发现自己在家庭中不像其他人那样受欢迎吗?现在是拥抱她的时候,尽快带她去看心理医生。

Maria-发布于2015年3月12日

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Im no expert,只有一个孩子,但是和我儿子在一起,he lacks social skills with children his age and is disruptive at school,he is also a sweetheart with me and with no challenges and demands,he has recently been diagnosed with ASD,自闭症谱系障碍,he is 7,mayb look into this,it will help yr daughter if this is the case,外面有支援!Best of luck!

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